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Two Sad Stories

I have two sad stories to share today.

Last night our dog found a nest of baby bunnies in one of our outdoor planters. One was sticking out of the nest, not moving. Given the freezing nights and rain we've had recently it didn't seem likely that the others would be in great shape either. I called the humane society to see if there was anything I could or should do to help, and the person there walked me through how to check each bunny and had me send a photo of their bellies to see if they'd been fed by their mother recently. Only one seemed alive, and only just barely. I was told it probably wouldn't last the night. Unfortunately it did not.

I work full-time at a tech company that provides resources to insurance brokers and my partner works hourly at an HR company on a team that handles HR for a big health insurance provider. Given the economic downturn, we've both been thankful that we work in industries that serve one that's staying busy these days. Unfortunately, my partner just found out today that there's not enough work for her anymore, so starting next week she will have zero hours until further notice. She's not being let go, but she's not going to be working or getting paid for the foreseeable future.

It feels like I was just starting to come to terms with our new situation when it up and changed on us. It's yet another piece of normalcy that's slipping away.

I suppose the lessons to be learned are these:
  1. Do the best you can with the tools you have. Even if you fail, it helps knowing you tried your best.
  2. Enjoy what you have while you've got it.
I hope you're having a good day and that many more follow.

Stay healthy and sane.
-Ryan
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